I know it feels like it's been forever since I posted anything. I've been through a lot in the last 18 months and I feel like I've spent this time finding my way again. So what has changed you ask?? I got divorced, my father passed away, and I moved...and I've been finding way my ever since.
1. I have no ill will against my ex. We decided mutually that we shouldn't be together any more. It was such a long process, but I'm glad that it's over now. It was a very stressful time, and I'm still trying to change back to my maiden name.
2. About a month after we decided to split my father passed away. That was a rough time for me and my family. I didn't have a good relationship with my father and the realization that that would never change was hard to accept and deal with.
3. I moved to Austin which wasn't a huge move, but definitely a good one. Now I'm only 20 mins from work, and I don't have to do the IH-35 commute any longer. When I moved here, I spent the first day sitting on the floor on a towel. I had no furniture and only some of my clothes. I didn't even have my cat.
Through all of this I've been trying to find myself again. I've spent many hours just learning how to be a single woman in her late 30s. Figuring out what it means to do things for myself and how to cook for one. I think my most favorite part of my journey so far has been connecting with my cat and seeing her grow. She is meeting so many people and making new friends.
Just as I have been changing, so will my blog. Please stay with me and join me as I continue on this journey. I see fun and exciting things to come.
What changes have you made recently?